If you hate somebody how she can love you? Even animal can understand the language of love & kindness. Do not hate her. Try to show love & kindness. Tell her stories; give her chocolate and other small things. It is the part of her education as well. Until she is 5 to 7 year old the treatment is only love & softness. After that you can change your behaviour. Your harsh treatment will make her angry person. You are at fault. Please change yourself.